How Fingernails Changed My Perspective on Church Relationships

The news of my wife’s pregnancy brought with it unexpected revelations about life’s wonders. Amidst discussions with the doctor, the mention of our unborn child’s fingernails struck a chord within me. Those tiny nails weren’t just biological components; they symbolized growth and the beauty of life unfolding.

This realization led me to ponder the spiritual growth of fellow church members, akin to the development of my daughter in the womb. Just as I marveled at her physical growth, I began to appreciate the spiritual growth of those around me. It wasn’t about their theological expertise or maturity in faith but rather about their journey of growth. Just as God delights in the progress of his children, we too should rejoice in the ongoing development of our church community.

Embracing Expectant Sanctification

With the assurance of future glorification, we can approach the process of sanctification with eager anticipation. Rather than focusing solely on the destination, we should cherish the journey of transformation unfolding within our church.

Here are some practical ways to contribute to the growth of your church community:

1. Commit to Your Church: Like a marriage covenant, commit to your church community with faithful dedication. Embrace the reality of imperfections and disagreements, knowing that mutual grace fosters genuine friendship and growth.
2. Share Meals Together: Foster deeper connections by sharing meals with fellow church members. Breaking bread together transcends pretense and nurtures authentic dialogue and fellowship.
3. Pray for One Another: Cultivate a habit of praying for your church members, allowing prayer to reshape your perspective and ignite compassion for others.
4. Stay Connected Through Texts: Reach out to fellow members through encouraging texts, highlighting God’s work in their lives and affirming their journey of faith.
5. Celebrate Each Other’s Growth: Engage in “godly gossip” by celebrating the progress and faithfulness of fellow church members in conversations and gatherings.

By embracing the journey of spiritual growth within our church community, we can recognize and celebrate God’s grace manifesting in each individual’s life. Just as fingernails symbolize the promise of life, let us cherish the ongoing transformation taking place within our church family.