A 38-year-old Nigerian man has opened up about his marital struggles, sharing that his wife of seven years only agrees to intimacy if he begs her. His story, posted on social media platform X (formerly Twitter), has sparked widespread discussion.
The man expressed frustration, stating, “I usually have to beg my wife before she allows me to have intimacy with her, and it’s a recurring situation. I’m fed up with begging.” The post quickly gained attention, with many users offering advice and sharing similar experiences.See some reactions below:
@CHI_funmii: “The man seems like a calm and easy going man and not in a way a man should be. Women often take this as a sign of weakness.”
@Cdolph510: “Except the begging before sex has been a thing from the inception of the ship. During his self-introspection, he’s convinced he’s led her well in all aspects. He needs to quit having sex with her for now. start working on his leadership intellect & restore his authority.”
@bond_00Seven: “I can assure you the wife loves him. But has no respect or fear for him. Or even afraid that he might go outside to get it. Worst place to be as a man.”
@new_dawn67: “Sometimes it’s a case of the woman being begged for her to get things done. If she’s used to this pattern, you will beg her for everything and anything till eternity. He’s probably be a real man that is just starting to be an unreal man.”
@Jamesluv39: “I observed these couples do not have children. In a 2 bedroom apartment you guys are sleeping in a separate room doesn’t sound right to my ears, where is the companionship in this? How will the cold night cuddling take place in this instance? There’s loneliness in this marriage.”
@FemmyThanni: “He should stop begging her for sex, it makes him look weak. He should just forget about having any intimacy with her indefinitely while he goes and find pleasure outside. She would be humbled to come back and beg him.”
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