Beyond buying wristwatches and boxes of chocolate for your lover, you need to know that there are other ways to show love even without having sex. Many people have preferences on how to be loved which we will be discussing in the rest of the content.
Don’t get me wrong, buying gifts is a good way to appreciate your lover, in fact, that can be his or her love language, but the question is, is it really enough to make him or her safe with you?
What does it mean to be safe with your lover?
It means being cherished or valued by your partner in spite of their weakness. Before this person becomes a lover, he or she is meant to be a friend first. There might be certain things your partner may not like that you are doing that make he or she feel exposed to danger. This is why you need to have a mutual conversation at all times so both of you are on the same page.
How can you feel safe with your lover?
Communication: It all boils down to communication, having a conversation with your lover is really essential. It makes you know if what you are doing is wrong or right. Talking together can save you a lot of stress and the best part is, you guys form a team that makes your relationship stronger.
Mutual understanding: You should be able to know when your partner is having a rough day or a good day, learn to know the right time to speak, the right things to speak, and tone in which you use to speak. This could break or build a relationship.
Three is a crowd: The best way to resolve a conflict is by sorting it out between yourselves. Besides,your partner might feel unsafe if you tell another person about the problems indoors.
Defend your lover: What happens when your partner gets into trouble, what role do you play, women especially finds it safe when their partners defend them in public. Not necessarily throwing punches but making sure that no one dares paly any prank when their partners are around them. Same could be said about men too. The point is, you should be able to defend your partner in public, either prank or not.
Shower your partner with so much love: Literarily, cuddle your lover, give them kisses and speak positive words, tell them how much you love them. This will make your lover feel warm and safe.
Note: Respecting your lover also shows safety. Try these tips and see your lover running into your arms everytime.
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