Dads matter.
They are the foundation upon which our families are built. Their love, example, dedication, and influence significantly impact our children’s lives. A father’s involvement directly impacts their children’s cognitive and social development. There is nobody like Dad!
However, we live in a society where fatherhood is increasingly neglected. Around 20% of dads in our country are considered absent, not living with any of their biological children. The family unit is meant to be a team effort. Both Mom and Dad provide the ideal support system for our kids, and we must encourage and support parents in their commitment to being present in their children’s lives, whether as biological, foster, or adoptive parents.
One wonderful way to show our dads that their efforts are appreciated is by celebrating them! Let’s not overlook their faithful dedication to the family. It’s essential to make them feel loved, recognized, appreciated, and honored as devoted fathers.
Here are some fun ways to celebrate Dad:
1. Shower Him with Cards and Praise
If you have young children, they often love creating hand-drawn cards for people they love. Use that creative energy to have everyone make something special for Dad, expressing how much everyone loves him. Present the cards along with your own words of praise, and Dad will be deeply touched by the heartfelt appreciation.
2. Find Ways to Pamper Dad
Dad enjoys being pampered every now and then too! Plan some ways to let him relax because he needs time to recharge so he can continue being an amazing father. You know your partner best; what helps him unwind? Food? Video games? A trip to the movies? Arrange for him to enjoy one of his favourite activities and let him know it’s all because you recognize his hard work and want to show your appreciation.
3. Value His Opinion and Acknowledge His Parenting Skills
Our society often portrays fathers as glorified babysitters, barely capable of handling the kids if Mom isn’t around. However, this is not the biblical role fathers are meant to play! In our marriages, we are instructed to “love and respect” each other (Ephesians 5:33), emphasizing an equal partnership in parenthood. This means Dad is fully capable of taking the lead with the children, and we must empower him through our words and actions, just as we do with Mom.
4. Maintain Unity as a Parenting Team
Unity requires humility and the ability to honour one another. When one parent gives an instruction, it should be respected and not undermined. Children often try to get a different answer by going between parents, but we need to stay ahead of them. If Fathers says no, that decision should be upheld as a family unit. This approach lets Dad know his role and voice are respected within the family. In a world that often dismisses the importance of fathers, this seemingly small commitment to unity is actually very powerful!
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