So, you’ve slept with your him. What now? How should you act and communicate afterward? Should you text him first?
The best approach is to let him take the lead. Traditionally, men like to be the pursuers in relationships. This has worked for a long time, so it’s wise not to change it.
- Don’t Text Him First
- Let him initiate contact. Men are often attracted to what they can’t have, so stay cool and avoid seeming needy.
- Don’t Act Needy
- Confidence is key. Avoid texting him constantly. Men prefer confident women and dislike neediness. Show that you have good self-esteem by not chasing him.
- Keep Expectations Low
- Just because you had sex doesn’t mean he’s thinking long-term. Men and women view sex differently; for men, it’s often not an immediate sign of commitment.
- Let Him Know You Enjoyed It
- Boost his ego by letting him know you liked the sex, but don’t bring it up first to avoid seeming overly eager.
- Don’t Pressure Him
- Avoid pressuring him about the relationship right after having sex. Men take their time with relationships, so relax and see where things go.
- Let Him Chase You
- Men like the chase. Don’t pursue him; let him come after you. This shows confidence and makes him work for your attention.
- Talk with Him
- Connect with him beyond just sex. Find common interests and build a deeper connection through conversation. Read: 7 Ways To Manage Platonic Relationships
- Look Good for Yourself
- Confidence comes from looking good for yourself, not just for him. This can make him see that other men also find you attractive, sparking his competitive side.
- Let Him Contact You
- He should be the one to reach out to you. This way, you know he’s genuinely interested.
- Be Mysterious
- Don’t reveal everything about yourself too quickly. Keep some things private to maintain his curiosity.
- Spend Time with Him After Sex
- Spend time together beyond just having sex. Cuddle, talk, and hang out to build a stronger connection.
- Engage His Mind
- Focus on more than just physical attraction. Keep him mentally stimulated with your intelligence and humor.
By following these tips, you can keep a guy interested in you even after sleeping with him.
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