There will be times when your marriage feels really tough. You might question why you got married and think you’ve made a big mistake. These moments won’t last forever, but they will come, and it’s helpful to be a bit prepared.
Here are some comforting thoughts for those difficult times:
- Everyone has flaws. When you truly know someone, you’ll find they can be challenging at times. Remember, you’re not perfect either.
- Your struggles are normal. Many people go through similar difficulties. Even if they don’t talk about it openly, millions can relate to what you’re experiencing. You might feel alone, but you’re part of a vast majority facing challenges in relationships.
- Negative thoughts are just thoughts. It’s not uncommon to have fleeting thoughts like wishing your partner would disappear. This doesn’t make you a bad person; it’s a common feeling that will pass. Although there is a limit, unless it becomes abad habit.
- Understanding each other completely is impossible. No one can fully understand someone else. It’s a normal part of being in a relationship.
- It’s okay to fantasize about an affair. Wanting to feel wanted and appreciated is natural, but having an affair won’t solve the underlying issues in your marriage.
- The intense despair will fade. Your current pain is real, but with time, it may not feel as overwhelming. We adapt and cope better than we think. Remember, this difficult phase will pass.
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